This is just an idea and think it would work out fine.
for the game name use your name for ladder: NoMercy4U
for password everyone use the same one: ladder
this way you can play ladder games and still don't have to play the quitters in the lobby, may take awhile to catch one but if everyone does it it might work out fine.
let me know what you think or post your password on here to let the other good players know so they can join you!